Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Jordyn and Kathryn

The day I have been fearing all year as finally happened: Kelsey's best friends, her reasons to wake up in the morning, our go to for entertainment, our "sisters", have moved. It was a very emotional week for Kelsey.
We have moved a lot in our lives, but I was realizing that this was the first time in our lives, that we have been the ones that were left. Normally we are the ones leaving and honestly I think that is way easier. Its so much easier to leave friends because even though you don't want to, you know you are going to be developing a new routine. You are forced yo start over. This is so much worse. We are only being forced to lose part of our routine and I hate it. Luckily Jordyn and Kathryn only live 30 minutes away and we have already gotten together with them, but there was just something magical about having them next door. They will be greatly missed. Kelsey has already cried for them on really tired nights. I know she won't really remember their friendship when she is older, but I will and it certainly was something special. If we all loved our friends like these girls loved each other, the world would be a kinder place.These girls literally spend every day together, tell each other everything, and still can't get enough at the end of the day. They would do anything for each other. If that doesn't define friendship, I don't know what does.




Diana and Emily

Diana and Emily came into town for about a week in preparation for a brain injury alliance workshop that they were both speaking at. Luckily for us, they came early enough that we got to spend lots of time with them. We most just chatted, ate really good food and swam, but it was one of the best weeks of the year. We love having family come visit. It really is what we look forward to.






Fry's Tour

The last week of preschool was very unofficial. We had a bunch of field trips and they were awesome. First we went to the fire station which was very typically but then we went to Fry's and it was AWESOME!!!
They gathered all of us by the front of the store and handed everyone a "gift bag" full of the following
Capri Sun
Ruler
Pencils and Notepad
Peanut butter crackers
Fruit Snacks
Magnets

Once we got the rules and our bags, we headed to the floral department where they got to look at flowers and each got a balloon.
From the floral department, they headed to produce where they talked about vegetables, got to pick an apple to take home,  and looked at some carrots.


 From produce, we headed over to the deli where a meat and cheese cup was awaiting all the kids





 On to the bakery! We each got a cookie and a ring (the toppers they use for the cupcakes)

 Next we headed to the seafood. The worker opened up the front of the glass so they could look at all the different fish and shrimps. She showed them a lobster's face, opened up an oyster, and showed them a crawdad or something like that. She finished her portion by giving all the kids hair nets. Kelsey HATED HATED HATED it!!!





She finished her portion by giving all the kids hair nets. Kelsey HATED HATED HATED it!!!


After the seafood, we headed to the back refrigerator to see how the milk is stored, then we headed to the pharmacy where we got ANOTHER gift bag. This one had a pill divider, dum dums, a baby medicine syringe,  more pencils, stickers, and a bunch of other stuff that I threw away.


I'm telling you. This was the coolest, most organized field trip I have ever been on. They had those kids loving the store. It blew me away. It was so much fun.

End of Preschool Pool Party

I don't know how but every part for preschool landed on my day. Some people would love this, and I kind of thought I would have, but after a while I got kind of tired of parties. I traded the Easter party, but got left with the end of school party. I was so over preschool (as were the kids and the other moms) that this is how the party went:
Played some youtube dance videos so they could get really hyper
Filled up my pool about 2inches deep
Pulled out some left over chips and saltines
Turned on some music
Told the kids only to come inside if they had to go potty.

Alright, so there was a tad more supervision than I let one too, but not much. I planned nothing and you know what, the kids didn't notice the difference. It makes me wonder why I was planning school at all this whole year. Regardless of how I felt, the kids loved the party and love preschool and I love that there are so many kids Kelsey's age. We are so blessed


I was going to make a "thank you" card for the other teachers, but never got around to it. This is the feed for that said thank you note






Thursday, May 26, 2016

Phoenix in Bloom

Summer is coming but its not too hot yet so we are trying to get outside as much as we can. One day we thought it would be fun to walk around and take pictures of the different cactus and flowers in our neighborhood. To be totally honest, it really wasn't that fun for so many reason. 1) Kelsey didn't want to walk or ride 2) Madison didn't want to ride 3) I realized that people might think it was weird to take pictures of their plants consequently including their houses so I got really weird about it 4) We all got super hungry 5)We all complain about everything all the time.
Regardless of our negative attitude about a "good" idea, we got a few snaps of some plants. Mostly its just funny to think about how much this idea failed











Wednesday, May 25, 2016

Mom's Tri

*Too bored to proofread. It could get ugly*

On May 7th I participated in my first Sprint Triathlon. I can not express adequately, how much I loved this more than anything I have ever done.
There is so much to say around this race and all of it adds to why I loved it so much. Bear with me as my thoughts jump from place to place.



Training:
 I started training for this in March. Here is what went through my head when I signed up:
Running is second nature to me. Even when I'm out of shape and in pain, I can find a way to keep running.
Biking- anyone can ride a bike right? (WRONG!!! PS)
Swimming- That's hard. That is what I can not do. That is where I need to work the hardest
Doing all three in a row- That will be exhausting. I need to practice that too.

So for a few weeks I started doing one of the three every day. Swimming was really REALLY hard for me, but my friends started going to the pool with me and gave me a few tips and slowly but surely I started getting it. At first I could swim two 25 m lengths, then it turned into 6, then it turned into 8, and before I knew it, over the course of 2 months I was swimming double the distance. I still would stop at the wall, catch my breath and then go, but I stopped putting my feet down. I even swam a mile once!! A whole mile!! Ethan filed me and it wasn't pretty, but I was so excited that I could do it. Swimming is so so hard!!

I borrowed Aunt Kay's bike and although I still think anyone can jump on a bike, it took practice to get used to the distance. 12 miles is not forever, but it certainly is not just a stroll around the neighborhood.

The key with running was making sure that I kept doing it. That was supposed to be my saving grace at the end of the race.

As I got 4 weeks out, I started putting things together. I would bike 15 miles, and then run 1 or swim 400 m and bike 6, always just doing some sort of combo. The first time I went from biking to running was weird because my legs wanted me to go faster than my body could, but after a few times I got used to it and started using that momentum to my advantage.

One time Callie and I went to the gym and put all three things together and all though we didn't race through transitions and only biked half, it gave me a boost of confidence that I could actually do this!


Race Day:
The day of the race, Callie picked me up at 5 and we headed to the YMCA to set up our gear. I was incredibly nervous because thats what I do.
This was the first year of this tri and its focus was to encourage any mom/woman to try a triathlon. Their emphasis was beginners and even novice athletes. It was perfect for me. They wanted anyone to come and boy did they get the turn out they were hoping for. People showed up with baskets on their bikes, adults tricycles, beach bikes, and more. It was such a fun and perfect atmosphere. People were cheering and encouraging. There just was no sense of competition. I stayed in my nervous state because I didn't know if I was going to be able to maintain my energy level for the whole race. I tired so hard to remind myself that this was just for fun and to have fun.



As we got closer to start time, we all line up along the pool in order of our swim time. Before we raced, they asked us to get an estimate of our 400 m. We got wristband colors according to our time and stood in line according to wristband. One person entered the pool at a time every 10 seconds. The idea was that we would be by people of our own pace so there wouldn't be too much passing. They really thought of everything. The pool was exactly 400 meters  so it really worked out perfectly. We would swim down one lane, cross under the rope, swim up the next. Cross the rope, swim down, cross the rope, swim up. We all just snaked the pool until we got to the stairs, climbed up and ran to our bikes.

I was super nervous about the transitions: how would my clothes stick, what tights should I wear,
what about wet shoes, what about my hair! but in the moment, everything just worked out and wasn't a big deal. I changed real quick, jumped on my bike, and headed to the 4 mile loop that we completed 3 times. The only down fall with the bike, is since it was a loop, you got passed by people who were faster than you, who were already biking, and then you had to slow down for people who were slower than you who were joining the loop on your 2nd or 3rd time around. There really isn't anyway around this and I'd say over all it worked out perfectly, but it would have been nice to just bike and not think about anyone else.

From our bikes, we rode into the same transition zone, dropped out stuff and took off running on a different 3 mile loop.


Accomplishments:
The swim couldn't have been any better. I literally did the best that I knew how. I never had to stop, just kept swimming, never put my feet down, and was able to  freestyle the whole time.
The bike was slightly disappointing only becasue I didn't have the best handle bars so I wasn't able to gear down when I wanted to. I pushed but found myself "strolling" a lot more that I wanted to.
The run was awesome. I love running negative and that served me well here. Since people were a head of me, it was easy to pick a target, catch em, and then pick a new target. I had someone in front of me to pick off the whole race. Can I just say how much I LOVE timing chips!! They have  changed racing for the better. No longer do we have to wait and loose time at the starting line becasue we are in the back pack. We can know from start to finish what our true time is. Its perfect for me too because I love negative splits. I don't do it on purpose but I love them. Maybe that's why I never did well high school? Maybe I didn't know how to run? Huh, makes you wonder


The Fans:
Since this was put on by moms (who we think were Mormon but don't know that) they didn't for a second forget that since moms were competing, there probably would be a bunch of kids spectating. They had all sorts of vendors and many of them geared towards children. Chik-fa-la, a bounce house, snow cones, cotton candy, popcorn etc all for free. It was set up so conveniently for families.





Swag:
When we crossed the finish line, we literally ran into a buffet of cupcakes and fruits! It was beautiful and amazing. every finisher got an adorable shirt that I still wear, and a necklace that says tri on it. They really want this race to stay noncompetitive so they announced the winners over the loud speakers but they didn't even make it a big deal. Every age winner got a rose and was allowed to stand on a podium for your own purposes, but they didn't make it a big deal. I was so impressed. They gave just enough attention to those who wanted it but gave even more to those who were there just to be doing something hard with a whole lot of women. It was perfect.


I am so glad that I have friends that make me do this kind of stuff. There is no way that I would have signed up for this on my own because I hate swimming that much, but I am so glad that Callie made me sign up. It was the funnest thing I have ever did, such an accomplishment, and just an overall reward to see how well I could do in a new environment doing new and hard things.



For my first tri I was so excited for how well I did. I won my age group, got in the top 20, got 4th over all in the running, and didn't drown. Lets repeat that, I didn't drown!! It was so much fun!!!
I wish I could've have biked faster, but I think I need to get over that.

I've been thinking about this race over and over and I think I loved it so much because it was completely individual and it was HARD! No one cared how I did except me. There was no pressure to run a certain time. Since I've never done a tri, I had nothing to compare it to so I was competing with a new slate. I love that feeling.
I also loved this becasue I completed something that I never thought I could. I hate swimming. HATE IT!!! I have always been so bad at swimming that I just kind of ruled out triathlons.  With a lot of nudging and prodding from my friends, I decided that it would be a challenge but something that I could try. I don't know why I'm just now realizing how powerful it is for myself worth to try and complete something new and hard. It was completely out of my comfort zone but I did it! I stepped out of the pool and had the biggest cheesiest smile on my face. I couldn't help it. I had finished and knew I did the best I could have.
The whole race was hard, but once I got to the running part I couldn't help but feel giddy. I knew no matter how I felt running would take me to the finish line and I could do that. Once I started running I knew that everything would be totally fine. And boy was it fine. Once I started running, I just let my legs carry me. It was the best feeling in the world. It was one of the few times that I didn't have control over my speed. My excitement just took me to my cheering family at the end.